Tuesday, 14 October 2025

And so commences my final year as septuagenarian.

 Wed. 15th Oct.




This photo was taken two weeks ago on the first anniversary of that devastating tripping accident - resulting in broken arm, fractured jaw (though not seriously) and two most prominent upper front central teeth knocked out, the latter explaining the closed-lips smile which would otherwise have revealed an ugly gap. All except the teeth situation reasonably resolved now. I still await appointment with professional dentist who'll tell me whether my request for a pair of falsies to be inserted at front upper is viable, rather than the original dentist's opinion saying "They'll all have to come out!" - whether he meant both upper and lower sets or just the upper, I was too startled for it to register.

Other than that, things are okay, though I'm afraid there'll be a rather large 'downer' at the end of this post - so if you had thoughts of sending me your wishes, though I do know they'd be well-meant, you might prefer to go easy on the 'happy' bit when you read it. 

Both pussies, Bobby and Sloopy, now in late middle-age, are in good health though still as hostile to each other as they ever were. Despite the cooler weather every night they both sleep with me, one on each side (Sloopy nestling in the warmth of an arm-pit) making my turning over quite a business, with an occasional soft warning growl of disapproval. But I'd be truly friendless without them.  

Now for the 'bad' news. 
It's becoming increasingly likely that I'm probably going to have to discontinue this blog, whether just for a time or permanently I can't say. If that time does come I'll do a short post announcing such. 
The reason - finance. Yes, it really has become rather grim. With Windows now having withdrawn support for Windows10, and now Microsoft as well, it's becoming riskier, my primitive laptop becoming more vulnerable to hackers. I do have reliable security in Avast, who have never yet let me down though it would be better to have back-up just in case, all of which is disappearing. I wouldn't like others to be put at risk to hackers through me, let alone anyone finding out my bank details, so I think it would be better all round if I at the very least, go into 'suspense'. Frankly, I do badly need a new laptop (this present one is second-hand, won't take Windows11, and has its other very apparent limits). A much-needed new one is, at the moment, way beyond my means. No point in going to such expense for a 'luxury' when I already can barely find enough to buy food and to pay the heating (and other necessary) bills to keep me going through the Winter. So despite my near-smile in the photo above - taken, as I say a fortnight ago - things are not going so well and could yet turn even grimmer. 
Wish I didn't have to say it, but there it is.
I'll let you know if things turn up....or go further down.
Thanks for any concern you may have.
    

       

22 comments:

  1. Dear Ray,

    We have been away far too long and are very sad to read this post on our return. Things have rarely been easy for you and now it looks quite bleak.

    What we have found on our return is a warm welcome from our old Blog chums and it is good to reconnect across the globe. What we do so hope is that you are able to continue since to remain connected is important in life.

    We wish you many happy returns of the day and do take the greatest of care.

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    1. Many thanks to both of you - and such a nice surprise hearing from you again after all this time.
      Nothing much to add on my present circs - which have now lasted , since things started going awry, nearly half my life. Whether this was to be my ultimate destiny, who can say?
      I hope to 'speak' to you again before - and IF - I am to 'vanish'.
      All the best to you and yours - and whomsoever you also wish to include.
      'Bye for now.

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  2. So sorry about the financial hell. I wish we had loads to share. But I do wish you a better 80th year with less stress. Sending you love for your birthday.

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    1. Thanks ever so much, Mitch. Greatly appreciated.

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  3. So sorry to hear that things are so difficult. You will be missed if you have to stop blogging and I think you will miss it too but thank you for keeping us all informed. Sending love and best wishes for your birthday x

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    1. Grateful thanks to you too, Carol. I most certainly would miss blogpals and their thoughts if it is to come to that, which I'm still hoping like mad it won't. My fingers remain crossed however long it's going to be.
      All my very best wishes to yoiu.

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  4. I completely understand. My computer got hacked last year and it's been a battle. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. But please, have a happy birthday!

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    1. Trying to keep the ol' spirits up, Sadie, though not with much luck so far. Just as well I'm teetotal, with no desire to return there - though drinking, fortunately, had never been a 'problem' for me. I just prefer to keep a clear head.
      Anyway, you, as one who knows what it feels like to having been hacked, are well aware of what a nuisance it can be, so it's a big risk not just for onmeself but for ALL one's contacts - so I don't want to go there.
      Thanks for your b/day wish - and I wish you all the best in return.

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  5. I think I forget you too are a October baby! I bring up the rear, so to speak, of the month! I will wish you birthday wishes and salutations, and a few birthday hugs! I do wish things will turn around for you. No matter how often one posts, when gone they are missed. If you still use your laptap, you can always feel free to email me. I'd gladly share it with you. You'd be missed in "our gang" And like Lance said, it' s good to have some communication with others, be it in person or otherwise.

    XOXO

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    1. You write very movingly, M.M. and it touches me deeply. It may well not turn out to be what I fear i.e. having to do a disappearing act, so got to keep hoping.
      I would certainly miss your own incredible postings, both the 'saucy' ones and others. Let's hope it just doesn't happen, right?
      Xs back to you too!

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  6. Well, I will say Happy Birthday and send good thoughts on the blogging situation.

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    1. Good of you for the message, Bob. Greatly liked and appreciated.

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  7. I'm truly sorry to read of your computer dilemma. I don't often comment, but I very much enjoy your fine writing and erudite views. I hope you find a way to keep blogging. Perhaps a newish (cheaper) reconstructed laptop?

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  8. Well, thanks very much for that, H. - me, 'erudite'? I'm not so sure the shoes fit but grateful for it anyway.
    My most earnest wish would be to acquire a brand NEW top-of-the-range laptop, having had my fill of cost-saving cheapo stuff which quickly run into problems. Not totally impossible if something turns up, but while waiting one can wish, can't one?
    Many thanks for your visit here - and please do come back if I'm still around to hear from you.
    Al the very best to you.

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  9. I wish I knew a solution for your computer woes. I echo everyone else here, Ray, on how much we would miss you if you had to stop blogging. You know how much I appreciate your writing and insights. Wishing you a happy birthday & sending good thoughts, today and always.

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    1. A thousand thanks for saying that, Elle. It goes to my heart. Hopefully the worst may yet not happen. You'll know before it does - IF it does. Luv to you.

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  10. It would be a shame to lose your voice. I agree that getting hacked is bad news and is to be avoided. There are some cheaper alternatives to keeping your laptop up to date than getting a new one that can run Windows 11, but these come with tradeoffs too. One helpful website might be https://endof10.org/places/ . You would have to back up your files beforehand and the experience would be different, but it might be worth it.

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    1. Thanks for the suggestion, Anon, but I'm really a primitive when it comes to the ins and outs of computers and their technicalities - and have no one on hand to ask or to devise me. Nonetheless I'll do what you suggest and see if I can manafe to give it a try. Nothing to lose? - or.....?

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  11. Happiest Day to you. Glad you're healing and hope there is a solution to your security issue. I'd hate to see you close shop.

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    1. 'Ta', B. Physically getting better, certainly - though, as you recognise, the non-visible side far less so - but soldier on somehow we must - and WILL!

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  12. Happy birthday all the same! Tasha says, "Woof!"

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    1. Thanx, Walt. Your visit here is always welcome. And please also thank Tasha for me - Woof, woof!

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